{"id":30685,"date":"2020-01-10T00:21:09","date_gmt":"2020-01-09T22:21:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/norkhosq.net\/?p=30685"},"modified":"2020-01-10T00:50:33","modified_gmt":"2020-01-09T22:50:33","slug":"liminal-a-refugee-memoir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/norkhosq.net\/?p=30685","title":{"rendered":"Liminal: a refugee memoir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;\" src=\"https:\/\/images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com\/images\/I\/41JEK8JgrRL._SX350_BO1,204,203,200_.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"246\" height=\"349\" \/>Documenting her family&#8217;s escape from the ethnic killings of Armenians in  Baku, Azerbaijan, Liyah takes us into her childhood perspective of war  and violence during her most formative years. Based around journal  entries written by her at a young age, she describes learning English in  America and her personal experience of how becoming a refugee shaped  her.Liyah takes the reader into her most private and personal space  along with her struggle with identity, assimilation and Post Traumatic  Stress Disorder. Her loss of innocence, longing for a childhood, and  survivor&#8217;s guilt is conveyed through her emotional reflection about life  after genocide. We meet a child who finds safety in detachment from  everything around her and finds peace in the stillness and liminal space  of her pending identity as an adolescent.The memoir gives readers a  glimpse of life in America and what it means to be a newcomer.<!--more--> On the  other side of the American Dream, we learn about the mental health  struggles of those arriving from war and violent conflicts and how they  are expected to assimilate with little or no support. This memoir  captures life&#8217;s inability to break the human spirit when a family is  imbued with unwavering faith, unconditional gratitude and sheer  determination.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/liminalmemoir\/?__tn__=kCH-R&amp;eid=ARCL4_9-4N14bPggy8Pxbo96BVhfz5E5e_205DaU7TwwooZcFSJ5TMCQekV9t9RwcnvuRwrG6RZ28CTw&amp;hc_ref=ARRnMoSzzzLoO9TtN6tfWX_ynnXDx3wY135dmTjO9tWTIVNy7sTiONYuLPCh-CRXYew&amp;fref=nf&amp;__xts__%5B0%5D=68.ARC9r7UJOhQy3OFznNZd5LPyUzJaxQYUz4_Ivs0RaQ_Dv-7LWZWYkgM9q7zhgGWwyjSBbA7x2uBBfwwY2xULWGplFbJqaTkOv-xgCV5amFakKJPWft11WcqF3KpxrgezQOUh-NaQk1z5NiaChVwE_Z8pZUwI2G3paUfvzwlNYj3_w0Tx3uSq7AcMggi7QJzoV5hxQgneE9wVuOFUQUmfxyGLlzXRh4fe-LMqoNG-8rV2cvpuMT-SSr_2lBgVkv3Zz9TJcX3RjmL4EpBnx8Bw5WQhE_84hG3Piv06_l5BUExptHJq4DTTk5EyX4N7Iepx_Pf7oSqShpyDb5wL7DzSfpjCNWEuM-a5oh3tyX0w4hUoD_2RYVZEv6riD60ESU39VPfQl3pJPGOl2i6Zh9A8rH5coJaeSzicBrznRBfUCdFpLIVIZezDlVvCpe5SN_pbQgqhQROM_Lp536YxhjrcFZ_46bG7QcS_KTnG26yTev1A--JGmqy-jJZn\">Liyah Babayan<\/a> &#8211; 30  years ago my family and I were hunted. Hunted like animals. The image  from the 12th floor of my home in Baku, Azerbajian has haunted me all my  child and adult life. I watched from  our balcony, as tens of thousands of Azerbaijani men gather in the  boulevard, chanting to cleanse the city of Armenians. Absolute fear, my  mother grabbing me away from the balcony, turning off the lights. Ethnic  killings of Armenians began on February 27, 1988, in the city of  Sumgait, just 18 miles away from the capital where we lived. After the  rally, the men were given lists, addresses of Armenian neighborhoods,  homes and places of employment. Immediately my family went into hiding. I  document our complete refugee experience in my book &#8222;Liminal, a refugee  memoir&#8220; <a rel=\"noopener nofollow\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Liminal-refugee-memoir-Liyah-Babayan\/dp\/0615649653?fbclid=IwAR2YvbHSQQRGh2IM5r7c5w-SQ-04TSjA631KokkW3ZydYqc1ap-OPQirUA4\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Liminal-refugee-memoir-\u2026\/\u2026\/0615649653<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">From January 12, 1990, a seven-day pogrom broke out against the  Armenians civilian population in Baku. No one was spared, complete  anarchy. Thousands of Armenians were brutally tortured, sodomized,  burned alive&#8230; pregnant women and babies, toddler girls, women and even  grandmothers were gang raped as our brothers, fathers, husbands were  forced to watch. Women were forced to dance in the streets naked, then  drenched in gasoline and set on fire alive. Babies smashed against  sidewalks. (Forgive me for sharing the details&#8230; we live with these  memories) My loved ones, stabbed, beaten, tortured, raped, thrown off  building alive and their bodies mutilated. Over 300,000 Armenians purged  overnight out of their homes, grabbing what they can carry fleeing for  safety. This is how my family became refugees, this is what we  miraculously survived.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">This year marks the 30th Anniversary of  the ethnic killings of Armenians in Baku. Today I remember those lives  lost in Baku, pledge and dedicate my author voice to continue to raise  awareness for justice, in their honor. &#8222;We are victors, not victims of  our past.&#8220; (quote from Liminal, a refugee memoir)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I am grateful for every opportunity in 2019 to share my book with international readers. \u2764  Blessed to be invited to present at events in 2020 and work with  multiple organizations, churches, foundations throughout the United  States to address PTSD in refugees and children of war. If your family  escaped these pogroms, I would be honored to include your story in my  second book of Baku Pogrom survivor chronicles.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Documenting her family&#8217;s escape from the ethnic killings of Armenians in Baku, Azerbaijan, Liyah takes us into her childhood perspective of war and violence during her most formative years. 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